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07/08/04     You can cuddle all you want but a woman needs DICK to keep her around for the long term

I was going through a phase that I just got out of. Dealing with all of these girls all of the time cause me to almost completely lose my sex drive. Because of this, I was having some erectile dysfunction problems. Now I would be able to get hard for my blowjob scenes on my porn site but when it came to actually going up in between somebody's legs and fucking them, I wasn't "up" to it....

I'm not saying that this happened all the time because there were the occasional times where I'd have a boner and slide up in some pussy but for the most part, I wasn't into having sex at all....I'd still like to look at women and I still liked making money off of women but I had lost my sexual interest in them and was viewing them as nothing more than product to be packaged and sold on the internet for my own profit. 

But now that it's summertime and I have my children with me for the summer without the hassle of hearing my ex-wife's mouth, I have now regained my happiness...And since I'm happy, I'm in a better mood more..and since I'm in a better mood, my sex drive has returned..........Believe it or not, I could be sitting around thinking about some pussy and my penis wouldn't even twitch with excitement. Now I can be sleeping and wake up with a woody just like the good old days...

I have a few girls that I'm cool with and one of the girls I was attracted to but I was never able to get it up to have sex with her. This went on for a LONG time. I might have been able to get it up maybe twice but I busted a nut within 30 seconds and after a few lame strokes....To the average man, he would be somewhat embarrassed but not me. That's because the girls all see that my penis works when they look at my porn videos so if my penis isn't working, the girl might think that it's because of her. That wasn't the truth but I played it like I didn't give a damn but I did....To compensate, I would lick her pussy good and I was very affectionate with her. I did all of the nicety sugary sweet cuddling and kissing and rubbing and holding and caressing and all of the other shit that women like done to them. I licked her pussy good enough for her to have an orgasm so it wasn't like she wasn't able to get her nut off with me.

Looking back on my mindset when I was in that phase made me see how much manliness I was lacking in that phase....I was in that bullshit "Sex isn't important, feelings are" mindset...I was sitting up here in my house thinking that I was Cliff Huxtable and was above fucking a hoodrat or two just for sport. 

I'm not saying that my "feelings" mindset isn't a turn on for some women. A lot of women like to be held a lot and all of that bullshit. A woman will definitely hang around you if you're getting her off with your tongue and providing good conversation. But it doesn't take the place of dicking her down good. You MUST dick a female down in order to really keep her on the hook and reasonably in line. A girl may enjoy the backrubs and the kissing and everything and she might not have a problem being butt naked and cuddling next to a man with a soft penis but the next day you better believe that they're going to call Jayquan the local crack slinging Negro and go sit on his dick....There's no way in hell she's just sitting around waiting for your penis to wake up from it's slumber.

So something clicked inside of me two weeks ago and all of a sudden, all I have to do is grab and wiggle my dick and it's ready for action. My one female friend that I was cuddling all of the time and had been disappointed so many times by my penis mashing up like an accordian when it got to the opening of her vagina....It was her lucky night because for one my sex drive came back and for two, she started trippin over this young sexy big titty teenage sensation that I was going to go smoke a blunt with...The fact that she started trippin about it because she was jealous turned me on. 

Women like to be told to suck a dick..You can tell them in a general conversation that you like getting your dick sucked. You can say that your fetish is getting your dick sucked, but until you TELL the woman to suck that dick, a lot of women aren't going to do it. So later that night, I looked at her in her eyes and just said straight out "Suck my dick baby" and she did it. She did a good job too.  My penis rose to attention and I told her to come sit on my dick. She did what she was told and the pussy felt as good as I thought that it would feel...

If a woman likes you, she'll clean up the kitchen and sweep the floor and straighten the living room up a little bit. But she won't do much more than that...But after you dick her down good, she'll sweep and MOP the floor, organize the refrigerator, clean the stove, clean and vaccum the living room, polish the dining room table, etc. etc....You can't get all of that from just "cuddling".....So I'm thinking that I'm back in the swing of things and I'm busting that ass out a few more times but THEN the downside of dicking a girl down starts to come out.

Women start to get too emotional once they've been given some pipe. They can't just be happy with some sex and a hug and kiss and a movie. They can't be happy to know that you're giving them some dick basically when they want it. But with a woman who has been struck by Mr. No Good's "Dick Fever", she starts with the trippin on shit...Now I thought that it was cute the FIRST time she tripped out just to show that she gave a fuck. That shit turned me on. But after that, any other time a female trips out, it's called BITCHING...

My kids were at my house and not at my mothers. One of my kids was awake and was upstairs in the tv room. We were down in the living room. I was doing my thing but I kept all of my clothes on and listened for her to come down the steps. Then the girl wants to fuck and I tell her that I can't be whipping my dick out and fucking her because my kid may come downstairs and I didn't want her to see that shit....Then she throws a hissyfit because of some shit that I won't go into and whined and moved away from me. It turns out that there was some kind of misunderstanding where she expects me to read her fucking mind about some shit when she could have just come out and told me...I really think women bitch just to see how much bitching that they can get away with if they ever get in a relationship with that man.

But I'm not the kind of nigga that lets my hard dick dictate what decisions I make. So I moved off of her and told her that I will NEVER again argue with her because she's bitching about what I need to do with MY OWN PENIS! I told her that if I wanted to hear somebody bitch because I didn't fuck them when they wanted to, then I would have just stayed married....You can't give a female an inch from the get go because if you let them bitch and moan now, they'll get much much worse as time goes on..So I'm gonna nip this crying shit in the bud now because I ain't going for it. I spent thousands of dollars to divorce my ex-wife so I won't hesitate to cuss a female out on the phone, hang up the phone, turn on some porn, and rub one out. It's cheaper. 

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