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04/13/04 Newsflash! You CAN still get women and be a responsible parent.

I'm sitting here right now in the living room with my children. I have the TV turned to Nickelodeon and they're watching Rudy and Max on Nick Jr. I'm an only child so I have a lot of time and money invested in my offspring. I don't care if I happened to have a baby with some stank hoodrat out in the streets. I know that I would make sure that the child would be well taken care of and I would be willing and able to do it all by myself.

I don't know why it is in the culture of Americans, Black and White, where the man is not treated badly in the community if he doesn't take care of his children. What's up with that shit?...I went on a trip to Mexico one time. I spent my time on the southeast coast of Veracruz and some of the small towns around that area where African blood is still noticed in the people. I was also in a little town called Yanga that is named after an African Slave that freed the town from Cortes back in the day of Spanish rule. I shit you not, there is a statue of an African man with a loincloth and holding a machete in the air in the center of the town...A statue of a BLACK MAN in Mexico....I'm known and remembered in that town as the only Black American to take the time out to visit there...It's been a few years and you could still go to that town and ask about a black man from America who visited there and they would remember...I could go to that town right now and knock on a door in the neighborhood and I would be taken in, fed, and sheltered from any law enforcement that wanted to come get me....ANYWAY, I'm mentioning this because I wanted to tell you about the Mexican "Machismo" culture.

The only thing I really liked about Mexico was the food...The people are boring, there's nothing to do, the only women allowed outside of the house un-escorted in the evening are prostitutes, and the men are the most sexually hypocritical beings on the earth...Their women can't fuck anybody else or everybody in the town would know and the woman would be ostracized, but the men can fuck anybody they want...The problem lies in that there aren't enough women prostitutes to satisfy the sexual appetites of all of the men when they go out and get drunk every night...So is why there are a shitload of cross-dressers and transsexuals running around in even the smallest backwater Mexican towns...You'll see the most "macho" Mexican men dancing around with the cross-dressers in the bars at night and nobody says anything about it. 

Another downfall of the Latin "Machismo" culture is that in some parts of Mexico, it isn't considered "macho" to even look for cars before you cross the street. So you have some Mexican idiots just stepping out in the street and getting killed because they're too stupid to look both ways before crossing....I could go on and on about the Mexican "Macho" Man but I won't because I just wanted to make a point...

But one thing that isn't considered "Macho" in the Mexican culture is to not be a good father to your kids and a good provider to the mother of your children...NOBODY respects a man in Mexico that doesn't handle business with his family..He'll be considered a bum by the community and he will be ignored and harrassed all of his life. I can see a Mexican man drunk on his ass and throwing up after he just finished pawing a transsexual's ass in the town bar and get up at 5:30 in the morning and get to work to make that money. You can't go to a Mexican town and see muthafuckas lying around doing nothing like you do here in the black community...But you also won't see the women sitting around being whores and being lazy like you see a lot of black american women doing. Every morning, you see the women outside sweeping the front porch and the men out working the markets or the fields or whatever the fuck they have to do to make those peso's....And at the end of the day, before the men go out to the bars to hang out with the other men and get drunk, they ALWAYS put aside some family time....You'll see the men playing with their children and walking with the whole family to go run errands...

Only in Mexico have I seen "Fiesta's" or parties where the WHOLE FAMILY goes to the party together...From the old grandmother down to the youngest child and all in between...They all go together...The family unit is valued in Mexico and even though I don't really like anything else about them, I gotta give those men props for taking care of their children...

Anybody who is reading this is either neglecting their own children or they know somebody who is. Why do black women let these lazy ass niggas who don't take care of the children that they already have lay up in their beds and let the nigga make more children with her? And why then do the women bitch because the man is "no good" and won't do for his kids?...Why?....Because you're STUPID!...

I may say that I'm a "No Good Trifling Man"...Yes, I like to chase and exploit women...Yes I like to get my drink and smoke on...Yes I like to do all kinds of shit...But the one thing that I DON'T do is neglect my children...Since I have daughters I know that a father needs to be affectionate with his daughters so that they don't go out in the streets to find affection from other niggas that don't have good intentions....I know because I'M ONE OF THEM! Damn near all of the women that I have on my porn site or the young high school girls that I get and the street girls out there getting naked for $20 all have one thing in common...They have either no relationship or a dysfunctional relationship with their fathers. 

Why is it acceptable for us black men to neglect our children and STILL be able to get good women to take us in? Why is it that we aren't treated badly by the community for this....If a man molests a child, he's gonna get fucked up in the community and inside of jail..If it's his own children, he's REALLY gonna get fucked up...So where is the community anger when that same father chooses to stay unemployed, get high, sell drugs, and spend none of that money on his children?

It isn't like a man can't get plenty of women even if he is a single father...Fortunately for me, I am able to work at home and I don't have to deal with the struggles of having a low paying job that takes up too much of my time and takes me away from my children...So I can empathize with women who are single mothers and have to do stuff on their own without any kind of help and it ain't easy...It' hard to buy good shit for your kids, put a roof over their head, feed them, and still provide all of the extra comforts of home..

**Taking my kids to my mom's....brb**

I never was a really good husband but I was raised to be a good father. My mother drilled it into my head that I was going to be a good father of some "chocolate grandbabies" for her and I made sure to hold myself up to my standard..My mother hates the fact that I do porn for a living and she wants me to get back in the church, but she has to respect me for what I do for my children...I don't have to wear new clothes but my kids will have what they need...I can always send my daughters to the beauty shop when they need it since I don't know how to do hair, and I give them all of the love and caring that a mother can give them....I don't let HOES come in between me and my children...When my children are around, my household goes from the Playboy Mansion to the Huxtable Residence instantly...I've always wanted to live like Cliff Huxtable..He always wore those old man sweaters and slacks and didn't work hard and had a nice house and always made sure that his family lived comfortable..I never wanted to be like James Evans, who was stupid and broke and always yelling at his kids and couldn't give his kids SHIT because he was an ignorant poor black dumbass...But even James Evans gave his children emotional support and a lot of fathers these days don't even do that.

To the men out there, you can get women and still be a good father to your kids....Some of y'all are semi-employed or if you're employed, you're not being financially responsible for your kids...You gotta stop that...I'm not saying you have to spend all of your money but try to do something for the children at least once a week..Instead of buying a twenty sack of weed one day, buy a dime sack and spend the other ten on some diapers and bring them over your babymomma's house and drop them off..

If you want to hang out with your boys all day and all night, why don't you just put aside Sunday afternoon to spend a couple of hours sitting on the couch and watching tv with your children? Find out what kind of formula your baby needs and go pick up a can..Go to Payless and pick up some moderately expensive shoes and bring them over for your kids..Just do SOMETHING!...There's a lot of y'all men sitting on the couch in your babymomma's house and ain't doing shit...Go pick up some groceries or something...I'm sure that you will get a lot more out of your woman if you show that you even half give a damn..If you're mad at the woman, don't take it out on the children..I know that women are acting like straight BITCHES a lot by not letting you see your children but I hate to say that you gotta spend some dough and drag her ass through the courts...By the time a judgement is dropped, she'll be worn out from paying her lawyer, having family court in her business, etc. etc...Just don't go off on her and break her car windows or something...So even if you're mad at the woman, drop off something for the kids every week..She might just let you see the kids again and it's much cheaper than paying a lawyer. 

If you're with your kids, you can get a boatload of women by using them as bait...I'm not saying to exploit your children but if you're a good father, you're gonna take your kids places anyway...So take them to places where there will be a lot of women and let the girls phone numbers roll in! I was at Mcdonalds the other day and I saw a sign where from 5-7 pm on Sunday's, they have $1.50 Happy Meals and they have storytime and games..I asked the girl at the drive-thru if kids actually go to the storytime and she said that it's packed with over 70 kids in there...And if there's seventy kids in there, you know what that means don't you?..BABY'S MAMA'S GALORE!!! I know that I'll be the ONLY single father there and I'll be surrounded by fine ass young single mama's with phat asses...And since I'm just a sexy chocolate handsome man and my children are beautiful, the women form pussy puddles all over the place when they see me with my beautiful children because deep down inside, they think that if they got some of MY dick, I could make a pretty child with them...It's DNA baby...Watch the Discovery Channel and see how animals act..It's the same with the "human animal" folks..

There are so many places that are full of young women where you can get five times the women that you can pull in a nightclub...And if you were being a good father, you'd know things like this...

Here's a good way to get a woman to give you some time...If a woman is bothering you because she wants to see you, let her know that you're watching your kids for the evening and you'll have to see her later...I guarantee you that the woman will be like "NO PROBLEM!!" and she'll definitely put you at the top priority to see her...And she'll do it JUST BECAUSE you would rather spend quality time with your children than to be with her...And she'll reward you with some hot wet willing pussy when you finally do see her...

I could go on and on but I'm tired of writing..My mother is watching the kids until this evening so I gotta enjoy this buzz that I have right now and sober up before I have to go pick them up...See ya later.

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